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A new year, a new passion – you’re never too old to horseback ride!

Perhaps you’ve always dreamed of riding a horse or maybe, you’re simply looking for a new hobby but one is never too old to experience the love that can be found at the barn! I’m always interested to hear from my “senior” students what made them decide to ride and recently, my student shared the following with me:

“As many little girls did, I grew up loving horses. I had pictures of them all over my bedroom walls and much to my parents chagrin, I definitely thought they should buy me one for my birthday. I never did get that horse I wished for; however, I was lucky enough that my parents paid for a few lessons, which I enjoyed very much.

Eventually, we moved and that was the end of my riding except for the occasional trail ride. My love of horses always did stay with me; however, a busy life of raising three amazing children and working full time kept me busy. Although we lived very close to many horse farms, it never occurred to me to pick up riding again until only a few years ago.

I have now been riding for almost 2 years and I got back into it quite by accident. When my youngest child was six, a friend mentioned to me that she was riding at Foxwood Farm in Bradford. She was part of a ladies group called “Hags on Nags” that rode once every other week, just for fun. My friend mentioned that occasionally they had a “bring a friend to riding night” and I asked her to invite me the next time there was an opportunity. So, I did go to that next “bring a friend to riding night” and I was hooked. It was so much fun and I knew that I had to continue. My kids were a bit older and I felt that I could afford to spend some time riding every other week. Each time I rode I learned something new – it was a challenge and so much fun I couldn’t keep the smile off my face. Eventually, every other week turned into once a week as I wanted to improve and I was loving it so much.

Recently, I had an interesting experience. It happened on a Tuesday, which is my riding day. Normally, I am excited to get home and get changed to head out to Foxwood Farm; however, on this particular day, I had had a crazy day at work and I was feeling tired and cranky. On my way home from the office I thought about cancelling my ride but I thought to myself, I know if I go I will feel better. So, off I went to the barn, part of me thinking I could stay home and put my jammies on and have a quiet evening…but I have to say that I am so glad that I went to the barn that night! I had such an amazing ride! It was just one of those lessons where everything went well. George, the horse I rode, and I were totally in sync and it was such a great feeling. I am so happy that I pushed myself to go and didn’t stay home and have a quiet evening. If I had stayed home that night, I wouldn’t have experienced that great ride and turned that frustrating day into a good one.

I wanted to share my story in the hopes that other adults might take the sport up again or if you have never ridden before, that you might give it a try. I can think of many reasons I enjoy riding: it’s a challenge, I get to spend time with great people and I learn something new every time but the best reason, really, is how it makes me feel – which is happy. I hope you give it a try and find out your own reasons.”

With the right horse, coach and attitude, horseback riding can be enjoyed for many, many years. Thank you, Jen, for sharing your story with us. I am a very happy coach when I see all my students leave their lesson with a smile and there is always a great, big one on your face when you are at the barn 🙂

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